It's so easy. Trust your photographer, get to know your photographer, email your photographer when you have things swirling around in your head.....CONNECT.
I can only speak for myself on this subject so keep in mind everything I'm writing is my point of view and my opinion. It would be futile to argue because honestly I don't care too much what others think on this issue. It's hella black and white. You can either be a personable person where each time you meet someone you give them the benefit of the doubt that they're cool and make the judgement later if the coolness had staying power OR you can be the other person who doesn't let anyone in and stays in their own world never giving a chance to anyone who may or may not have an opportunity to make a positive or negative impact on life.
I'm pretty damn personable. If 20yrs of customer service has taught me anything it's that there are a hell of a lot of people out there that are cool. Sure there are always assholes or those that want to disrespect just because reasons but among those are some rad humans.
My goal is to be that rad human for you HAHA. I mean really take the time to think about this, I will be documenting your wedding all day. This means you will be stuck with me and I with you for a very long time. Don't you want our relationship to be that of a rad one? If you answer that question with a resounding no then most likely your not my client and I would have already referred you to someone who may fit your style. But if you answered YES then we're halfway home already! I don't want to work with difficult people and I can sure as hell bet that you don't want a difficult to work with vendor stuck to your hip all day!
So, be rad because I'm going to do my best to make you feel your best. Besides...all the planning is done with, if shit goes south wouldn't you really want to be captured making the best of it instead of being totally stressed out? Keep your head up, enjoy your day and all the little things that dissipate over time......never mind them. Trust in your vendors to do their job because they are trusting in you to do yours which is to kick ass on your wedding day!